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Thursday, November 15, 2007

How Can I Know Who To Marry?


"How should we go about finding out who to marry?"
"Do we really know what love is?"
"What does God have to do with marriage?"
"If we look long enough, will we eventually find the perfect mate?"

These are some of the questions that we will be addressing in this workshop over 4 Friday evenings in January 2008. We will view an interactive video by Discovery Interactive Bible Study and break out into some groups for discussions throughout the video.

While the bible study was conceived in 1991 and the production is ahem...somewhat outdated, the biblical principles are relevant. Married couples will be invited to facilitate small group discussions, so feel free to lambast them with more up-to-date queries. : )

This workshop is open to our own youths and young adults over 18 years old. However, we welcome any current or prospective partners, even if they're not from our church nor believers.

To coordinate food and facilitators, do email me at ocdeep@starhub.net.sg to register your attendance by 15 December 2007.

Workshop: How Can I Know Who To Marry?
(Discovery Interactive Bible Study)

January 2008, Friday evenings, 7:30pm - 9:30 pm Bethany Room
Light refreshments will be provided.

4 January
Lesson 1: Follow God's Principles for Finding a Mate

11 January
Lesson 2 : Know the Difference between Love and Infatuation

18 or 19 January (TBC)
Lesson 3: Accept God's Design for Marriage

25 January
Lesson 4: Abandon Your Search for a Perfect Mate

Monday, October 15, 2007

*back to basics*

well, its been awhile since i've joined u guys for cell meetings, and i also realized the blog suddenly gone silent for awhile... so here's a little to share, a little for us to ponder about. i must apologize that the structure is a little hay-wired, cos i'm basically just brainstorming as i write along - pardon the spelling and/or grammar errors if u spot any.

*back to basics*

sometimes there're just too many irritable skeptics around that simply cant understand, bcos they're not filled in the spirit, hence, they try with their own limited wisdom to decipher, while reading the bible as it was a fictional book. to date, many who lack the basic intellect never seem to make any sense of the simplest yet most profoundly written book - Genesis.

in chapter 1v 26 [...Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, [b] and over all the creatures that move along the ground." ] - i guess it already suggests that God was not just a solitary being, but the fact that plural suggests there's more than 1. and man was referred as "them", which also suggest there wasnt to be only 1 man, but many... to be.

after the deed was done, when adam n eve was created, He gave a simple & specific instruction - which was open ended & suggests freedom of choice.

chapter 1 v29 [... Then God said, "I give you every seed-bearing plant on the face of the whole earth and every tree that has fruit with seed in it. They will be yours for food. 30 And to all the beasts of the earth and all the birds of the air and all the creatures that move on the ground—everything that has the breath of life in it—I give every green plant for food." And it was so. ]

later in chapter 2 v 9 [... And the LORD God made all kinds of trees grow out of the ground—trees that were pleasing to the eye and good for food. In the middle of the garden were the tree of life and the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. ]

readers literally assume that the tree of life was literally a fruit bearing plant, and so it was forbidden to literally consume of the fruit it bears.

in chapter 3, the temptation - [ 1 Now the serpent was more crafty than any of the wild animals the LORD God had made. He said to the woman, "Did God really say, 'You must not eat from any tree in the garden'?"
2 The woman said to the serpent, "We may eat fruit from the trees in the garden, 3 but God did say, 'You must not eat fruit from the tree that is in the middle of the garden, and you must not touch it, or you will die.' "
4 "You will not surely die," the serpent said to the woman. 5 "For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil." ]

to the laymen, they continue to assume that it was literally a fruit that caused men to sin, but little do they realise that it wasnt the fruit, but it was a badly conceived CHOICE, the act of DISOBEDIENCE that was the cause for downfall

to put it all in a nutshell, God gave us the more important of Cs, as opposed to the material world of Cs... cash, credit card, career, car, condominum... etc. it is clear that at the beginning, he gave us, the 5 major Cs; Circumstance, Conscience, Choice... and what follows was Consequence - which was to evolve into another Cycle starting with Circumstance again.

1. Circumstance - in the garden of eden, everything that was ever needed was provided. while the T&C was to refrain from 1 particular tree. (a simple command, a test of obedience)
2. Conscience - trust & obey, nothing will go wrong.
3. Choice - try to play God? suffer the consequence!
4. Consequence - too bad, so sad... be banished from eden, and u provide for yourself
5. Cycle - the chain of actions connect & evolve into a whole new cycle (permutation/ algorithms)

skeptics say, it is unfair that we should all suffer the fate of 1 undeserving couple who disobeyed. then again, they fail to see themselves in the mirror, that they too might 1 day disobey God's command, 1 way or another.

as it is said, christians arent saints, and we too r sinners. hence, the church is not a museum of saints, but actually a hospital of sinners. we need to be reminded to reflect upon ourselves, be responsible for our own actions. hold ourselves accountable for how many times, we've unknowlingly/ habitually; turned a blind eye, turned a deaf ear, offered venom with our tongue, offered grime to those fallen, and in need of a helping hand...

not to mention, we shouldnt forget the more important Cs that God gave us, since the beginning of time. just like choose your own adventure, 1 wrong Choice can lead to many more troubles that will permutate down the road.

the next time we encounter some bad characters in life, perhaps we shouldnt judge (for we too will be judged), Jesus said to the crowd "let he who's not sinned, cast the 1st stone". but instead, pray for discernment & wisdom to do the right thing. it's never too late to lift a finger, there's plenty more to be reached... plenty more to be saved.

CHEERS!

Sunday, April 08, 2007

Question: What does FIFA mean?

Answer: Field In Front of Alvin's house!




Friday, March 16, 2007

Q: Why is Elaine in tears?

Because she turned 20 and we celebrated her birthday last care-cell with 19 candles (whoops!) and a lovely slideshow video made by Angel and Samuel.

Blessed 20th birthday Elaine!

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

BBQ on 20th Jan 07

"We're probably the only people in Singapore who are BBQ'ing"

"So, are wer BBQ'ing cats & dogs for dinner?"

Think I'll remember these 2 quotes for quite some time. The first one was mentioned by Joseph & the 2nd by Jan...

Privately, I had prayed for good weather and was kinda optimistic as that Thur and Fri were bright, sunny days. However, God had other plans and the first photo below really summed up the weather that Sat. But I don't think that damped out spirits one bit :) Due to technology (Joseph & Linda's technologically advanced portable BBQ pit cum ice-box that runs of gas), the food was still cooked and hungry stomachs were filled. All in all, it was a good time of Food, Friendship and Football. (football for those who stayed behind to see Liverpool beat Chelsea 2-0. Woohoo! You'll never walk alone! :p)

Didn't get to take many pictures as I was doing some cooking, so Zhen Zhen took most of the pics. To see all the pictures, go to my online photo album...

http://ao310.fotopic.net





YA retreat pics (BJ) - pt 3

Pictures of the making of our YAM vision 07 poster :)





The completed masterpiece

YA retreat pics (BJ) - pt 2

The following are just some shots taken from "Wander & Wonder"





YA retreat pics (BJ) - pt 1

ok, this entry is way overdue... sorry everyone.

Anyhow, just some pictures from the YA retreat once again, taken from BJ's camera :)





Cool water droplet :)


Mark & Daniel taking 40 winks as they prepare to go on the highly strenuous night activity we were gonna have... the energy-sapping "firefly rivercruise" :p

Sunday, January 14, 2007

first cell of the year!

the new year's here! with a new book to study and cell to attend again. i joined Doulos this week and it was a really nice, warm first cell of the year at Jan-and-Sarah's :) it's lovely to see so many people gathering to study and discuss His Word, share about their experiences and thoughts, all in such a cosy home. so here's to a God-blessed year's worth of cells ahead.

love, nat

~*

Thursday, January 04, 2007

Reflection from the YA retreat--flowers pt 2







And now for my favourite picure...

Think this is a frangipani but I'm not too sure :p Whatever the case, I like the soft-feel that was achieved :p

Reflection from the YA retreat--flowers pt 1

This is a continuation of my preoccupation of taking pictures of flowers wherever I go but some of you said you liked them so thought I'd post them up for your enjoyment :p I used these for my sharing after the "Wonder & Wander" segment.

Also, I have no idea what these flowers are (for most of them at least). I just like taking pictures of them :p


My 2nd favourite shot :p




Reflection from the YA retreat--photos pt 2



Sunset by the cove. Like the sun that rises and sets every day, O Lord, You are so faitful :)


Took this shot blind while out on the firefly river cruise.


We didn't go hungry due to our in-house gourmet chef, "Mario"!

Reflection from the YA retreat

"A short reflection teaches us that adoration and repentance, yearning and praise, thanksgiving and communion, petition and reverence, are all interconnected. They are but different aspects of the living relationship of humanity to God, made possible because God reveals himself to humanity and calls us."
Romano Guardini


"Our religious activities should be ordered in such a way as to have plenty of time for the cultivation of the fruits of solitude and silence."
A. W. Tozer

"In place of our exhaustion and spiritual fatigue, God will give us rest. All He asks is that we come to Him...that we spend a while thinking about Him, meditat ing on Him, talking to Him, listening in silence, occupying ourselves with Him--totally and thoroughly lost in the hiding place of His presence."
Charles (Chuck) Swindoll

With that, I set off for Sebana, not really knowing what to expect. I was going fresh from doing my last worship session for 2006 (the Year-end Celebration) but not fresh spiritually. On the contrary, I've hardly gotten the chance to rest since I got back from Nepal. So with a little disappointment, tiredness and turmoil in my heart, I departed for the ferry terminal, all the while still organising the logistics for the retreat. (I was however excited about spending time with some of my dear friends)

Personally, I seeked for this retreat to lead less and to listen more. Also, I aimed to summarise my own thoughts greatly to give more time for others to share. As to how successful I was, one has to ask the rest of my retreat mates ;)

At the end of the retreat, I realise to some extent that the programme wasn't as "free & easy" as previously thought... but I do come away not so much refreshed (as coming from a long good rest) but more of renewed.

Renewed in knowing that serving the Lord is never in vain. Renewed in understanding that in all my physical service, all God wants from me is.... me. This came across clearest in a song that I shared after the "Wonder & Wander" segemnt.

Praise Looks Good on You

Verse 1:
When you lift Your hands up high
And you sing a song of praise to Me
It brings Me great delight
Such a lovely sight
And yes it is true
Praise looks good on You
Morning night and noon
Your praise ascends to heaven
Like the smell sweet perfume
Filling every room
And yes it is true
Praise looks good on You

Chorus:
You bring your sacrifices
And you offer up your praise
You lift your voice with singing
But your heart seems far away
More than a sacrifice
I am looking for your life
Holy and acceptable
And pleasing in my sight

Verse 2:
So offer up your lives
Holy and acceptable
A willing sacrifice
Precious in my sight
But in all that you do
Remember all I want is You

(Repeat Chorus)

Verse 3:
So lift your hands up high
And worship Him before the altar
Consecrate your life
A willing sacrifice
But in all that you do
Remember all He wants is You
And yes it is true
Praise looks good on you

So, with this sharing, I present to you some of the pictures that I took. More will come from Bing Jun & Alvin :)


The group (12) while we were waiting to board the ferry at Tanah Merah Ferry Terminal.

Ok, I know this shows us leaving the resort instead of leaving it but our hands were all so full when we went in that we didn't have the opportunity in snapping any pictures :p


Our last meal of 2006! A typical Singapore dish called... Chicken rice :p

Don't ask me what Stanley was trying to pull here... maybe so hungry that he decided to snack on some of Jan's 'Saboteur' cards :p

The first night of reflection & thinking